I have tried ColumnDefinition Width="5*" and also with 3*, 1* to ColumnDefinition which aplied to Grid container and the parent control is ListBox but it does not reflect the expected width. refer XAML code as below
<StackPanel Height="Auto" HorizontalAlignment="Left">
<ListBox x:Name="myListView2" BorderThickness="0" Background="#635F5F">
<ListBox.ItemsPanel>
<ItemsPanelTemplate>
<StackPanel Background="#635F5F" HorizontalAlignment="Left" VerticalAlignment="Stretch" Orientation="Vertical" />
</ItemsPanelTemplate>
</ListBox.ItemsPanel>
<ListBox.ItemTemplate>
<DataTemplate>
<Border BorderThickness="10" BorderBrush="#413e3e" Background="#413e3e" Margin="5, 5, 5, 5" Grid.Row="1" Grid.Column="1" HorizontalAlignment="Center">
<Grid>
<Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<ColumnDefinition Width="5*"></ColumnDefinition>
<ColumnDefinition Width="3*"></ColumnDefinition>
<ColumnDefinition Width="1*"></ColumnDefinition>
</Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<Grid.RowDefinitions>
<RowDefinition></RowDefinition>
<RowDefinition></RowDefinition>
<RowDefinition></RowDefinition>
<RowDefinition></RowDefinition>
</Grid.RowDefinitions>
<TextBlock Style="{StaticResource GridRows}" Grid.Row="0" Grid.Column="0" Text="{Binding OrderNumber}" ></TextBlock>
<TextBlock Style="{StaticResource GridRows}" Grid.Row="0" Grid.Column="1" Text="{Binding LABEL}" ></TextBlock>
<TextBlock Style="{StaticResource GridRows}" Grid.Row="0" Grid.Column="2" Text="{Binding Amount}" ></TextBlock>
<TextBlock Style="{StaticResource GridRows}" Grid.Row="1" Grid.Column="0" Text="{Binding Size}" Margin="0, 5, 0, 0"></TextBlock>
<Border BorderThickness="1" Height="25" Width="30" BorderBrush="red" Background="Red" CornerRadius="10" Grid.Row="1" Grid.Column="1" HorizontalAlignment="Left">
<TextBlock FontSize="9" Foreground="White" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center" Text="{Binding LabelRadius}" />
</Border>
<TextBlock Style="{StaticResource GridRows}" Grid.Row="1" Grid.Column="2" Text="{Binding AmountVal1}" Margin="0, 5, 0, 0" ></TextBlock>
</Grid>
</Border>
</DataTemplate>
</ListBox.ItemTemplate>
</ListBox>
</StackPanel>
</StackPanel>
It might work if you set the Grid width: