In the effort of building a live site on its actual live hosting platform is there a way to tell google to not YET index the website? I found the following:
http://support.google.com/webmasters/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=93710
But would that tell them to never come back or would they simply see the noindex tag and then not list the results, then when it comes back to crawl again later and my site is good to go I would have the noindex removed and the site would then start getting indexed?
Sounds like you want to use a robots.txt file instead:
http://support.google.com/webmasters/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=156449&topic=2370588&ctx=topic
Update your robots.txt file when you want your content to be indexed.